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Becoming the Rainbow's avatar

I think there's power -- and mental health benefits -- to reaching across the identity divide and realizing our essential commonality as human beings. As a gay man, it's tempting to think any problems I might have stem from my sexuality (or societal homophobia) but I don't think that's true. Addiction, lonliness, broken relationships, these problems are endemic to modern life among both gays and straights.

I never think of my straight brothers and sisters as enjoying "heterosexual privilege." Yes, it's true that on balance it's more challenging to be gay than straight. But each of us come to the present moment with complex histories involving myriad advantages and disadvantages. I refuse to put my pain on a scale and weigh it up against anothers. As if I could possibly put all of our "intersectional identities" into a computer program that would spit out a correct answer! It can't be done and it would be disrespectful to try.

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SimulationCommander's avatar

Great article, but I think we're at about peak woke right now. Obviously the Claudine Gay scandal blew a hole in the side of the DEI industry, but also James O'Keefe's recent video showing IBM (?) was blatantly using discrimination in hiring practices. The courts are slow, but they work. I think it helps that people have a pretty basic understanding of fairness, and elevating OR diminishing a person based on race is simply not fair.

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